A woman can:
- Love her man’s penis
- Direct his climax
- Place his semen
Without being submissive.
Without being sexualised.
Without being on call for his need.
She can say:
“Stroke for me. Don’t come until I say.”
“Now. Come for me.”
A woman can love her man and his penis without being dominated by him and his sex drive.
Patriarchy trains women to serve men’s arousal. In mammal nature, males supply semen when the female needs it. Females allow and receive.
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