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The biology of placement
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The biology of placement

Plain language on oxytocin prolactin and dopamine in placement. How timing and repetition at release create calm in your body and presence in him.

The Hormonal Loop
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The Hormonal Loop

In humans and other mammals, orgasm exists as a reward for mating. Hormones deliver reward. With direction and placement, reward is rewired.

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Maintenance is not sex
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Maintenance is not sex

Maintenance isn’t romance. It’s placement. I don’t clear him because I owe him. I clear him because I built this house. And I keep it flowing.

Stop performing. Start leading.

Reclaim your space without apology.