When to place daughters
Placement is not control. It is return. Let her run wild. Let her dance. She will know when. You will know when.
Lai Yin
Why I decide when
Tuning is not about his need. Tuning is not about relief. Tuning is about this house. This orbit. This return. That’s why I decide when.
Why I tune my man
I share my house with a man. My space. My rhythm. My bed. And because I want no drama — I tune him.
How I tune my man — in a real house. With real kids. In real time.
Five minutes. Any room. Any hour. I tune my man before friction starts. I clear him before chaos builds. I place him before drift sets in.
Maintenance is not sex
Maintenance isn’t romance. It’s placement. I don’t clear him because I owe him. I clear him because I built this house. And I keep it flowing.