BlackPink: repetition. Lai Yin: installation.
From repetition and drills to Pavlov. BlackPink rehearse until the beat owns them. I install and reward. Hormones do the rest.
CLY
Lai Yin embodies gravity and places her man in orbit around her.
Latest
Gaza without governance
Fathers carry what’s left of their children in plastic bags. Bosses keep talking. Allies keep sending weapons.
Pegging for landing.
Pegging isn’t kink. It’s correction. A raw, embodied practice that rewires trauma, restores power, and resets the nervous system from the inside out.
Women at the beach. What nature already knows.
Before I birthed my daughters, bikinis they were for covering. Today I see them wearing them to be naked in sunlight.
The mother with tattoos
At Matosinhos beach I saw a mother, poised and tattooed like scripture. Her thong flashed. She was the me I stopped becoming.
On the mermaid and the idiots who feared her
Denmark removes a mermaid statue for being “pornographic.” Lai Yin exposes how critics and priests project shame onto women’s bodies while the statue stands still.
On Pegging: Use cases
When plugging fails, pegging restores. Penetration on her terms. Correction by command. Clarity through force.
How I handle him after climax.
I don’t bring him to orgasm. That’s his work. My work begins after his climax. I place him, I imprint him, I seal the signal.
On Pegging: Command and control
When plugging fails, pegging restores. Penetration on her terms. Correction by command. Clarity through force.
Does placement work? (And what semen-on-skin actually does)
Semen on skin is not about arousal or subservience. It’s about placement. Biological, psychological, and relational. And yes; it works. But not because of a mystical belief.
On plugging: Use cases
Plugging is not kink. It’s correction. Containment. Calibration. A system for placing him. When words don’t, and presence must.
Making him come for you
You do not have to chase, please, or perform to hold power in your relationship. You claim it by standing in it, and he orbits that.