A woman can love her man and his penis without being dominated by him and his sex drive.
On a straight woman’s joy of keeping a penis of her own.
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Lai Yin writes for women reclaiming power through biology, language, and somatic leadership.
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Placement: An embodied method for anchoring feminine power and leadership
When stress floods your body and wears you down, Placement gives a body-based way to relieve stress and restore calm.
Placement: Ontology of the Embodied Self
The philosophical counterpart to the scientific white paper on Placement.
People are performing for a performer who is dead.
Grief isn’t performance. It’s breath that doesn’t fill. A reflection on Diane Keaton, loss, and saying it while they’re still alive.
Placement: Toward recognition as a Somatic Healing Modality
A scientific overview of the hormonal basis for Placement, a somatic method that joins embodied power and a timed orgasm to bring stress down fast.
My baby turned 16 today.
Some nights you don’t have to hold it all. Some nights you’re simply held.
How declared and installed meaning keeps Placement stable
This paper shows how declared and installed meaning keeps Placement stable.
The biology of placement
Plain language on oxytocin prolactin and dopamine in placement. How timing and repetition at release create calm in your body and presence in him.
The bed is not the field
Sovereignty doesn’t live in the bed. It moves with the woman who holds the space.
Venture capital does not exist
The myth, the drain, and the real cost of keeping a company alive.
Where are you supposed to meet your mate? (If not at work?)
Work is where you build your life. You meet your mate where you live. Not where compliance manuals say it is safe.