Protocols · · 8 min read

Installing his pet name

A 7-day protocol that installs his pet name as signal. His body links your voice to arousal, safety, and surrender. He softens, obeys and orbits on command.

Installing his pet name
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Before protocols begin read this short guide.

Goal

Condition his body, not just his mind, to register your pet name for him as a signal of safety, intimacy, and surrender.

He doesn’t just hear love.

He feels it in muscle, skin, and breath.

I call him "BB" and this week I am installing his pet name to register in his nervous system as experiencing admiration, devotion, love and arousal.
To receive that name as signal.

Not performance.
Not kink.
Not baby talk.

Signal.

He hears it in my voice. He feels it in his chest, his skin, his gut.

He softens because I said so.
And that’s only the beginning.


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