Householding On menstruation and the birds and the bees Before they could walk, they already knew what blood meant. Because we never hid it. We never locked the door. By Lai Yin / 21 Oct 2025
Householding / A woman can love her man and his penis without being dominated by him and his sex drive. On a straight woman’s joy of keeping a penis of her own. By Lai Yin / 19 Oct 2025
Biology / Placement: An embodied method for anchoring feminine power and leadership When stress floods your body and wears you down, Placement gives a body-based way to relieve stress and restore calm. By Lai Yin / 13 Oct 2025
White Paper Placement: Ontology of the Embodied Self The philosophical counterpart to the scientific white paper on Placement. By Lai Yin / 12 Oct 2025
Sovereignty People are performing for a performer who is dead. Grief isn’t performance. It’s breath that doesn’t fill. A reflection on Diane Keaton, loss, and saying it while they’re still alive. By Lai Yin / 12 Oct 2025
White Paper Placement: Toward recognition as a Somatic Healing Modality A scientific overview of the hormonal basis for Placement, a somatic method that joins embodied power and a timed orgasm to bring stress down fast. By Lai Yin / 11 Oct 2025
Householding My baby turned 16 today. Some nights you don’t have to hold it all. Some nights you’re simply held. By Lai Yin / 4 Oct 2025
White Paper How declared and installed meaning keeps Placement stable This paper shows how declared and installed meaning keeps Placement stable. By Lai Yin / 30 Sep 2025
Biology / The biology of placement Plain language on oxytocin prolactin and dopamine in placement. How timing and repetition at release create calm in your body and presence in him. By Lai Yin / 21 Sep 2025
Householding The bed is not the field Sovereignty doesn’t live in the bed. It moves with the woman who holds the space. By Lai Yin / 14 Sep 2025