Placement · · 1 min read

Making him come for you

You do not have to chase, please, or perform to hold power in your relationship. You claim it by standing in it, and he orbits that.

Making him come for you
Photo by Ahtziri Lagarde / Unsplash

Commanding his release as ritual. Not reward.

It’s not a favour.
It’s not a treat.
It’s not for good behaviour.

It’s yours.

He doesn’t come when he’s ready.
He comes when you say.
That’s not control.
That’s clarity.

Because a man who’s permitted to climax on your word
doesn’t drift.
He anchors.

You don’t let him chase arousal like a dog.
You set a rhythm.
You decide if today ends in
silence,
stillness,
semen.

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