Patriarchy inverts the mammalian order.
It assigns initiative and entitlement to the male, and availability and accommodation to the female.
Biology does the opposite.
In mammals
- The female regulates access.
- The female regulates timing.
- The female decides when arousal becomes completion.
- The male stabilises through successful placement, not entitlement.
Patriarchy trains men to demand and women to supply.
Biology wires men to present and women to select and contain.
That mismatch produces:
- Male restlessness, addiction, drift.
- Female aversion, shutdown, resentment.
- Chronic sexual negotiation instead of regulation.
Patriarchy survives only by overriding the nervous system with rules, shame, and duty.
Biology does not comply.
Nervous systems under patriarchy leak.
This is not political theory.
It is regulatory mismatch.
When women return to biological leadership:
- Men calm.
- Desire returns.
- Bond stabilises.
- Power stops being performed and starts being felt.
That is not rebellion.
That is restoration.
References
- CLY. (2025). Placement: Toward Recognition as a Somatic Healing Modality (Preprint v1.0). Lai Yin. Zenodo. https://doi.org/10.5281/zenodo.17443416
- CLY. (2025). Placement: Ontology of the Embodied Self (Preprint v1.0). Lai Yin. Zenodo. https://doi.org/10.5281/zenodo.17444167
- CLY. (2025). How Declared and Installed Meaning Keeps Placement Stable (Preprint v1.0). Lai Yin. Zenodo. https://doi.org/10.5281/zenodo.17444623
