Why can’t he stay tuned?
Men are not static. They are built to move, rise, and return. Tuning is not control. It’s meeting him at design specifications.
Tuning
Actions or adjustments that sync your man’s nervous system to your frequency. Eye contact. Breath. Voice tone. Posture. You calibrate him back to you. You bring him into harmony. He steadies. He sharpens. He softens where needed. You lead the frequency. He follows.
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Why I decide when
Tuning is not about his need. Tuning is not about relief. Tuning is about this house. This orbit. This return. That’s why I decide when.
How I tune my man in a real house. With real kids. In real time.
Five minutes. Any room. Any hour. I tune my man before friction starts. I clear him before chaos builds. I place him before drift sets in.
Why I tune my man
I share my house with a man. My space. My rhythm. My bed. And because I want no drama, I tune him.