Sovereignty doesn’t live in the bed. It moves with the woman who holds the space.
Where I handle my man has nothing to do with where we sleep.
For years I thought the bed was the place for connection.
That if something was wrong in bed,
something was wrong with us.
I was wrong.
The bed is where we sleep.
The bed is where the children dream.
The bed is where the family gathers on Sunday mornings.
Patriarchy trains women to serve men’s arousal. In mammal nature, males supply semen when the female needs it. Females allow and receive.
Plain language on oxytocin prolactin and dopamine in placement. How timing and repetition at release create calm in your body and presence in him.