In humans and other mammals, orgasm exists as a reward for mating. Hormones deliver reward. With direction and placement, reward is rewired.
Everything in nature runs toward one thing: procreation.
Every living system exists to reproduce itself.
That is why in humans and other mammals, orgasm exists as a reward for mating.
In animals, the cycle is simple.
The female goes into season.
The males circle, fight, and one mates.
In humans, it is not so raw.
Because humans have language.
With language comes meaning.
With meaning comes choice.
With choice comes agency.
With agency comes responsibility.
With responsibility comes authorship.
Stress floods your body with hormones that wear you down. Placement gives a practical, body-based way to bring those levels down and restore calm and balance.
Patriarchy trains women to serve men’s arousal. In mammal nature, males supply semen when the female needs it. Females allow and receive.
Plain language on oxytocin prolactin and dopamine in placement. How timing and repetition at release create calm in your body and presence in him.