A blowjob is not performance. It is placement. It is command. It is programming. And it is how I keep him tethered to my orbit.
I tell him he will receive a blowjob.
He lies back on the bed.
Two pillows under his head.
Ready.
I take his penis in my hand.
I stroke him until he is hard.
Then I wrap his fingers around his penis.
Place my hand over his.
Guide him.
Set the rhythm.
Dictate the pace.
I tell him: "do not stop.
Do not lose the rhythm I gave you."
This is direction.
This is command.
Patriarchy trains women to serve men’s arousal. In mammal nature, males supply semen when the female needs it. Females allow and receive.
Plain language on oxytocin prolactin and dopamine in placement. How timing and repetition at release create calm in your body and presence in him.