I use anal for landing.
Not casually.
Not automatically.
Not for novelty.
Anal is not spontaneous.
Anal is not frictionless.
Anal is not “porn.”
It is the highest signal I give him.
Because there is no natural lubrication there.
Because there is no ease there without full preparation.
Because there is no real opening there unless I have chosen everything.
It requires care.
It requires attention.
It requires my full sovereign body, without resistance, without shame.
That’s why I use it sparingly.
And only when it matters.
When I use it
When he is carrying weight no man should carry alone.
When he is holding pressure that words can’t reach.
When I need to pull him back into orbit without negotiation.
When I need to tell his system; without words; you are fully home.
I don’t offer it for entertainment.
I don’t offer it because he asks.
I offer it when my system chooses; because I own the space.
Why it matters
When I prepare that place :
