When I choose anal, it’s not play. It’s placement.
Anal is not friction. It is not theatre. It is signal.
I use anal for landing.
Not casually.
Not automatically.
Not for novelty.
Anal is not spontaneous.
Anal is not frictionless.
Anal is not “porn.”
It is the highest signal I give him.
Because there is no natural lubrication there.
Because there is no ease there without full preparation.
Because there is no real opening there unless I have chosen everything.
It requires care.
It requires attention.
It requires my full sovereign body — without resistance, without shame.
That’s why I use it sparingly.
And only when it matters.
When I use it
When he is carrying weight no man should carry alone.
When he is holding pressure that words can’t reach.
When I need to pull him back into orbit without negotiation.
When I need to tell his system — without words — you are fully home.
I don’t offer it for entertainment.
I don’t offer it because he asks.
I offer it when my system chooses — because I own the field.
Why it matters
When I prepare that place —
- Lubricate.
- Breathe.
- Relax fully.
- Receive fully.
— I am sending the clearest message into his animal body:
"There is no barrier between us."
No performance.
No transaction.
No apology.
Not skin. Not thought. Not hesitation. Not resistance.
Everything is open.
Everything is allowed.
And when he finishes inside me there —
not pulling out, not spraying elsewhere, not exiting the orbit —
it wires his entire nervous system with the signal:
"You are fully received."
"You are safe here."
"You belong here."
The science behind it
Studies confirm what sovereign bodies already know:
- Dopamine surges during male ejaculation — especially with deep placement — reinforce reward pathways and attachment .
- Oxytocin floods the system, deepening trust, emotional bonding, and physical relaxation .
- The mesodiencephalic transition zone — the same brain region activated during profound pleasure or heroin rush — lights up during ejaculation .
When I govern the field,
and when he releases inside that apex place —
it imprints him at the deepest biological level.
Not metaphorically.
Physically.
Neurochemically.
Why I don’t waste it
I don’t invite him there and then pull out.
I don’t invite him there and then have him finish elsewhere.
Because that would waste the placement.
It would waste the bond.
It would break the signal.
When I prepare myself —
I prepare for full entry.
Full completion.
Full imprint.
Nothing partial.
Nothing performative.
This is not casual.
This is covenant.
Is It About Pleasure?
Sometimes.
I have had orgasms from anal landing that shattered my chest open —
orgasms without touching my clitoris, without forcing my body.
Because when placement is right, pleasure follows.
But pleasure is not the purpose.
Placement is.
Governance is.
The body remembers what the mind forgets.
Closing
When I offer that place,
it is not because I am less.
It is because I am more.
I govern.
I place.
I restore.
And when I say here —
he knows exactly what it means.
Because it’s not invitation.
It’s not performance.
It’s law.
Footnotes
: Holstege, G. et al. (2003). "Brain activation during human male ejaculation." The Journal of Neuroscience.
: Carter, C. S. (1998). "Neuroendocrine perspectives on social attachment and love." Psychoneuroendocrinology.
: Holstege, G. (2000). "The emotional motor system and micturition behavior." Behavioral Brain Research.
• Brody, S. (2010). “The orgasmic function of the human female: An evolutionary analysis,” Archives of Sexual Behavior. (Describes oxytocin/dopamine surges improving vaginal and anal sexual comfort when trust and relaxation are present.)
• Levin, R.J. (2007). “Human Sexual Response Mechanisms,” The Journal of Sexual Medicine. (Explains parasympathetic activation reducing pain perception during sexually receptive states.)