Placement · · 3 min read

When inside becomes the safest place

Inside is not romance. It is not reward. It is the structure where he lands and rests because I said so.

When inside becomes the safest place
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How placement turns orgasm into completion, and why inside is the only place that makes sense.

There was a time I only let him come on me.

On my chest.
On my stomach.
On my thigh.
Or into silence, his hand, a towel, the floor.

Not because I didn’t trust him.
Not because I wasn’t ready.
Because that’s where I placed him.
Because that was what my space could hold, cleanly.
Because it kept the act governed.

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