Placement: A somatic method for restoring feminine power and leadership
Stress floods your body with hormones that wear you down. Placement gives a practical, body-based way to bring those levels down and restore calm and balance.
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The biology of placement
Plain language on oxytocin prolactin and dopamine in placement. How timing and repetition at release create calm in your body and presence in him.
The structure for fulfilment: Where female power lands and leads.
Discover the core architecture behind Lai Yin. She says when, how, where. He follows, anchors, and rises to power her.
The Hormonal Loop
In humans and other mammals, orgasm exists as a reward for mating. Hormones deliver reward. With direction and placement, reward is rewired.
I didn’t get a boob job. I got my body back.
This wasn’t for men. It wasn’t for lingerie. It was a reclamation. A return. A restoration of what I never should’ve lost.
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Venture capital does not exist
The myth, the drain, and the real cost of keeping a company alive.
People are performing for a performer who is dead.
Grief isn’t performance. It’s breath that doesn’t fill. A reflection on Diane Keaton, loss, and saying it while they’re still alive.
Placement: A somatic method for restoring feminine power and leadership
Stress floods your body with hormones that wear you down. Placement gives a practical, body-based way to bring those levels down and restore calm and balance.
A woman can love her man and his penis without being dominated by him and his sex drive.
Patriarchy trains women to serve men’s arousal. In mammal nature, males supply semen when the female needs it. Females allow and receive.
The biology of placement
Plain language on oxytocin prolactin and dopamine in placement. How timing and repetition at release create calm in your body and presence in him.
The bed is not the field
Sovereignty doesn’t live in the bed. It moves with the woman who holds the space.
Where are you supposed to meet your mate? (If not at work?)
Work is where you build your life. You meet your mate where you live. Not where compliance manuals say it is safe.
The sword they carry
I didn’t just birth daughters. I birthed flames. They won’t leave my house empty-handed. They will leave carrying the sword I placed.
Sovereignty
My body rewires through his restraint and obedience. From hyper-vigilance to sovereignty, biology restores what trauma stole.
When inside becomes the safest place
Inside is not romance. It is not reward. It is the structure where he lands and rests because I said so.
On Pegging: Five Paths of Sovereignty
Pegging is not play. It is placement. Five ways to govern his release and prove your sovereignty.