Lai Yin

She writes about marriage, motherhood, sex, and power. She lives in Europe with her husband and their three daughters.

Who my husband is

He did not run. He did not punish. He stayed through everything. This is the man I married.

By Lai Yin

/ 13 Oct 2024

On holding my house

I place myself. I place him. The house changes when I do.

By Lai Yin

/ 6 Oct 2024

Why I tune my man

I share my house with a man. My space. My rhythm. My bed. And because I want no drama, I tune him.

By Lai Yin

/ 22 Sep 2024

Maintenance is not sex

Maintenance isn’t sex. It’s placement. I don’t clear him because I owe him. I clear him because this is my house.

By Lai Yin

/ 15 Sep 2024

Householding is not cuckolding

I don’t fuck other men. I rarely fuck my own man. I hold my house clean. This is not rebellion. This is householding.

By Lai Yin

/ 8 Sep 2024

You are not late. This is what you were always becoming.

Most women arrive late to their power. That’s how it works. You are not behind. You are exactly on time.

By Lai Yin

/ 1 Sep 2024

You are not late. This is what you were always becoming.

The journey that rebuilt my system.

How I returned to Lai Yin.

By Lai Yin

/ 31 Aug 2024

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By Lai Yin

/ 31 Aug 2024