Sovereignty
You hold the throne. You don’t explain. You don’t ask. You don’t soften truth to ease his reaction. You move from what you know. You don’t collapse when he struggles. You lead. You stay seated. He orbits because you own the throne.
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The bed is not the field
Sovereignty doesn’t live in the bed. It moves with the woman who holds the space.
The sword they carry
I didn’t just birth daughters. I birthed flames. They won’t leave my house empty-handed. They will leave carrying the sword I placed.
Sovereignty
My body rewires through his restraint and obedience. From hyper-vigilance to sovereignty, biology restores what trauma stole.
Women at the beach. What nature already knows.
Before I birthed my daughters, bikinis they were for covering. Today I see them wearing them to be naked in sunlight.
The mother with tattoos
At Matosinhos beach I saw a mother, poised and tattooed like scripture. Her thong flashed. She was the me I stopped becoming.
On the mermaid and the idiots who feared her
Denmark removes a mermaid statue for being “pornographic.” Lai Yin exposes how critics and priests project shame onto women’s bodies while the statue stands still.
When I don’t tame him
When I don’t tether him. When I just have him fuck me.
When to place daughters
Placement is not control. It is return. Let her run wild. Let her dance. She will know when. You will know when.
A young woman’s guide to ease and grace part three.
Part three of a three-part series showing women how to test a man’s obedience to her frame. This post gives a clean menu of belief tests to see if he can follow, stay placed, and hold orbit inside her space without performance, pressure, or pretence.
A young woman’s guide to ease and grace part two.
Part two of a three-part series showing women how to place a man from the start. This post gives clear steps to establish boundaries, command loyalty, protect your space, and set your terms from the beginning.
Daily rituals for aging with power
These five daily rituals restore dignity, sensuality, and presence to the process of aging. Power doesn’t fade.