Sovereignty
Sovereignty is the outcome of placement as practice. It is a state of ease and grace — power without force. It is regulation and instruction through signal. When you move through the world, people feel you before you speak. Rooms shift. Paths open. You embody leadership. Others align to your signal.
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On marriage
Marriage is a really, really bad idea. Separation has been in the air we breathe since the beginning.
On c-section
Years after our daughters were born, I was still chasing a son. Conception wasn’t instant like it was with our daughters.
London
On why I don’t get to London often enough. Fish and chips on Notting Hill. Noodles and dumplings steaming in Chinatown. And the correct Brasier.
On my father
He ruled the wok and the pot. He cooked tong from scratch with rice fluffy and hot and sweet. He pulled me out of abuse and hospitals and brought me home when I was lost.
Tokyo
On cheesecake in Ginza. The filter of fast-moving particles and locating my husband.
Hawaii
On unrushed days in Hawaii. Swimming with dolphins, forgiving the past, and making love with her growing inside of me.
