Sovereignty
Sovereignty is the outcome of placement as practice. It is a state of ease and grace — power without force. It is regulation and instruction through signal. When you move through the world, people feel you before you speak. Rooms shift. Paths open. You embody leadership. Others align to your signal.
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On Miscarriage
By the time I had written the thank-you cards to our wedding guests, I was pregnant. Then my womb was empty again.
Sevilla
On crossing Europe alone by train and being hot and single for a while.
Some women are sent
Some women aren’t just born. They’re summoned across bloodlines and time to complete what another woman began.
People are performing for a performer who is dead.
Grief isn’t performance. It’s breath that doesn’t fill. A reflection on Diane Keaton, loss, and saying it while they’re still alive.
Venture capital does not exist
The myth, the drain, and the real cost of keeping a company alive.
Where are you supposed to meet your mate? (If not at work?)
Work is where you build your life. You meet your mate where you live. Not where compliance manuals say it is safe.
The sword they carry
I didn’t just birth daughters. I birthed flames. They won’t leave my house empty-handed. They will leave carrying the sword I placed.
Women at the beach. What nature already knows.
Before I birthed my daughters, bikinis they were for covering. Today I see them wearing them to be naked in sunlight.
The mother with tattoos
At Matosinhos beach I saw a mother, poised and tattooed like scripture. Her thong flashed. The flash landed in my body.