Tours
On Brazilian waxing, nights until dawn, high-voltage batteries and milkshakes by the Loire.
Householding
Householding is the structure she holds in the home. It is the rhythm, order, mood, and standard everyone rests in. Her steadiness shapes the space. Her signal sets the tone. He stays in orbit through tethering. He stays calm and focused through maintenance. Together these keep her powerful and oxytocin rich, and the home quiet, steady, and responsive to her.
Latest
Chinese New Year
On pan-fried turnip cake, sleeping with a Gweilo, fertility, and the impossible task of being Lai Yin.
Tokyo
On cheesecake in Ginza. The filter of fast-moving particles and locating my husband.
I am harbour
She didn’t come to visit. She came to nap. She lay down because my house holds. I am harbour.
On nitpicking
Nitpicking happens in the moment. Without thought. Without impact assessment. Without malice.
On Housekeeping
He walks the dogs. I move the world. He does the mornings. I place everything in motion.
