Householding
Householding is the structure she holds in the home. It is the rhythm, order, mood, and standard everyone rests in. Her steadiness shapes the space. Her signal sets the tone. He stays in orbit through tethering. He stays calm and focused through maintenance. Together these keep her powerful and oxytocin rich, and the home quiet, steady, and responsive to her.
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Tokyo
On cheesecake in Ginza. The filter of fast-moving particles and locating my husband.
On Nitpicking
Nitpicking happens in the moment. Without thought. Without impact assessment. Without malice.
On Housekeeping
He walks the dogs. I move the world. He does the mornings. I place everything in motion.
Some women are sent
Some women aren’t just born. They’re summoned across bloodlines and time to complete what another woman began.
On menstruation and the birds and the bees
Before they could walk, they already knew what blood meant. Because we never hid it. We never locked the door.